Like you I have looked at news report after news report about the frantic attempts by Trump et al to reverse the election results. The rational given is that he does not/cannot be seen as a loser. He is so crazy and devoid of humane feelings he is incapable of recognizing that being remembered as a loser is the least of the negatives for which he will be remembered in history. In my book "executioner" will be at the top of the list for his total failure to take actions that, according to health professionals and scientists, would have saved the lives of thousands in the COVID pandemic. His failure literally ordained a death sentence for thousands.
Like many of you I know the pain of great loss this year, though not from the virus. I not only feel your pain but I am also very angry for you particularly if that loss had been preventable. No one deserves that kind of loss. I hope our pain can be refocused on a common good. Whether to help people or the planet - we have a lot of damage to undo and a lot of healing to be done.